If You’re Bored, You Must Be Boring… Attract Excitement Instead

“If you’re bored then you must be boring…” I’m not really sure where this came from, but I remember throughout my childhood hearing and echoing this sentiment. Over the years I’ve actually found this to be rather true, but perhaps not in the sense that my 12 year old mind made.

If you’re bored, impassionate and just kind of traipsing through life all of the time then you probably come across as a boring, apathetic person. Now I’m not saying that you ARE that person, in fact I believe that everyone has a quirky, passionate, excitable “Hell Yeeeeeah!” side hiding somewhere just banging to get out, but if you have nothing going on then you probably don’t have very much to talk about or do. Perhaps you’re contented with this, but it’s been my experience that this going through the motions does not a happy life make.

There are so many different ways to figure out what you’re passionate about; I’m a very hands-on learner myself so I like to get neck deep in whatever I’m doing and I want to try EVERYTHING! If you’re the analytical type, make a list of all the things that catch (or have) caught your fancy and see if you can find some common ground. I’ve spent countless hours giving advice for free to friends, coworkers, and random passersby that feel necessary to indulge me in their lives (who knows why? Maybe they feel that trust vibe coming off strong) and my favorite parts of anything (career, life, relationships) have always been very strongly linked to teaching, communicating, connecting, breaking down walls – so it eventually clicked together for me and I decided that I wanted to pursue life coaching as a career. Your passion could be hiding where you least expect it, maybe it lies in that one thing you’ve always kinda sorta wanted to do, but came up with 5,000 excuses not to just go for it.

Taking ownership/responsibility of your life extends to your happiness too so go take life by the balls! Go try something new today or indulge in something that already seduces you. If you choose to stay bored and make excuses then you will attract more reasons to stay bored, but if you go out and find at least one thing that seduces you, you’ll start to attract more opportunities for happiness (and growth!). The Universe wants to tickle your fancy, it has this unwavering need to seduce you and take you to heights of delight that you’ve never imagined. All you have to do is make that choice to align your will to God’s in whatever form he comes to you because the ultimate goal is love and joy and it should be yours too! You are the only one standing in your way.


Always remember: you get the value that you give.


Is the Universe Trying to Tell You Something… Well, Maybe You Should Listen a.k.a Why You Should Pay Attention to Repitition

***I know that the posts have been sparse lately; I’ve been transitioning from two jobs to one and still haven’t had quite a chance to breathe let alone think! There a oodles of ideas a-brewing in my head so there’s definitely more to come!*

Love you all! Now onto the good schtuff:


Listen, Understand, Act


Lately one question has been rearing its head in my life in one form or another –

What do you want to do with your life? Ideally, where would you like to be career-wise? What is your big daddy pie in the sky if only the stars will align just right dream career?

For a bit it was mostly the interviews that I was going to, but even in my personal life people want to know – so what do you want? I figure this for a sign. The Universe is asking me with as many voices as possible,

Babygirl! What do you want? What can be set into motion for you?

Well, Universe I’ve thrown it out there about a dozen times and now my ears are perked up and open, my eyes are hungrily taking in every little thing, my intuition is going into overdrive weeding through opportunities that will put me in the best position to achieve what it is that I want. How do I know this is in the works? I just do. I’ve placed all of my believing and faith into this knowing that the Universe is conspiring in my favor (and I’m beyond grateful). It took a whole lotta shutting up and tuning in to hear it.

Manifesting is simple once we forget how hard it can be; let me restate, once we unlearn all of the things that block us that the ego has whispered to us (lies) manifesting what you want is easy because 1) you know beyond a doubt of a doubt that you deserve itand it’s already yours and 2) you know beyond a doubt of a doubt that the Universe/God is in full support of you. It’s no secret that I would like to move toward providing formal coaching offerings through one-on-ones, workshops, and do it yo’self courses with emphasis in self-love and empowerment – let’s figure out what turns you on and makes scream yes out loud. So I’ve put it out there, wishes and intention sealed with three kisses and hand to the heart to anyone that will listen and now once more on an online platform. Nothing like accountability to spur things on.

Elaborated Updates, VALUE Coaching, and Spiritual Reminder


spirituality (Photo credit: Loulair Harton)

Reminder: Faith, spirituality, love, wisdom – no matter what lies within you

I wanted to post something from my red book, my book of fire, a spiritual journal with all of the tenets I believe in, all of the wisdom that I’ve accrued over years, journeys, and hidden blessings. I searched high and low – went through all of my old journals, every piece of paper I own and it suddenly hit me. A couple months ago I got into a car accident and my dad told me he would clean out the car, but he never got around to it and I completely forgot – I never grabbed my red book. Words cannot explain how low my heart sank. That journal housed epiphanies, deep spiritual flow writings, self-love reminders, sketches of the “rock star” tattoo I’ve planned forever, core beliefs, clearly set intentions, maps of my heart – things that I hold most dearly. Gone.

This is all just to say I know; I know how hard it is to let go of things. This was a reminder that even something that I put so much of my heart and soul into is just another passing thing. The love and intention that I poured into that journal made it special, but the journal itself is of this world and the love and intention will still remain.

Alas, I will not be posting anything from that book, but I have full intention on beginning a new one and instead I’m going to do what I said I would a couple of posts back and let you know what I’ve been up to:

First, I was sick for about a week and it sucked. I don’t care to relive that part of my November so I’ll just leave it at that.

Now onto the good stuff! I have been writing, just not in blog form. During my jobless adventures I spent a good bit of my time furiously typing out a book/program/manifesto and it’s evolved into something more than I originally thought it would be. It started as a mini-book that would be self-published or e-published on vulnerability. I realized two pages in that I couldn’t fully explain vulnerability or expect to teach someone to be vulnerable without the other pieces to the puzzle.

Vulnerability is closely tied to other concepts that I came to realize a lot of people in my life had blocks around. They couldn’t get to vulnerability because they couldn’t accept their authentic truth or realize that they had one. They couldn’t be their authentic self because they didn’t love who they were, they didn’t perceive themselves and the world with love. They couldn’t love themselves because they couldn’t embrace their own shadows as essential to their being a whole person. They couldn’t embrace their shadows because they couldn’t let go of anything (especially control). So VALUE coaching was birthed into the world; VALUE – Vulnerability Authenticity Love Unshackling Embracing Shadows. I’ve been plying away at this and a free mini e-book (yay free!).

Add More ~ing to Your Life was a spiritual catalyst for me and the author Gabby Bernstein often speaks of the metaphysical text she studied, A Course In Miracles, and I have been called to follow in her foot steps and study the same. This pursuit has also brought me to study speed reading. Working my way up to 600 wpm! You know, slowly but surely.

I will do my very best to deliver content more frequently and in the meantime, forgive me for being a naughty blogger!

With love and celebration,